Life is happening FOR you

Hello beautiful human,

I am writing to you from an airplane. I value this time so deeply.

Truthfully flying excites me, and still blows my mind…

How do these things stay in the air with gravity? Mhmm.

Anyways today I wanted to share with you the mindset that changed my life, and I trust it will change your life as well.

This mindset can be applied to your whole life, not just business.

This is going to be an extra min or two to read, but I deeply encourage reading it all because it is potent.

Here it is:

Life is happening FOR you, not TO you.

It sounds simple, right? Well, that is because it fucking is.

You are not the victim of your life, you are the victor.

By being born, and by continuing to live, you are enough.

I believe (and have strong person evidence) that the purpose of life is to simply experience it to its fullest potential.

That life, through its sacredness, is actually a game…The Game of Life.

Life was not created to make you suffer.

Life was created to give you experiences and challenges so that you could level up.

How many times have you heard the phrase:

You don’t grow in your comfort zone.

Or

The killer of expansion & growth is comfort.

This means that in order to grow, expand, and actualize we must get comfortable with discomfort.

This then also means that when “bad” or “challenging” situations are happening to us we do not need to label them as such because these are the moments of RADICAL and POWERFUL TRANSFORMATION.

These are the moments that define who we are, what we are capable of, and what our threshold is.

I will share with you this super exclusive secret…

As you actualize your potential, life gets “harder” more challenging, and often more “uncomfortable”

But guess what?

Your threshold and ability to navigate these experiences exponentially increases and you stop viewing them as such.

Why?

Becomes life is happening for you, not to you.

I am going to gamify this for you so it anchors in.

I encourage you at this moment to connect to your breath, breathing slowly in through the nose and out through the mouth.

Ok, stay with me because once this lands, it changes the game (your life), forever.

You are the character In your own video game (called the game of Life)

In this game, you stumble upon a challenge (let’s say you miss a flight)

In the game of life, this is facing a boss…Do you have the skill sets and experience to overcome this challenge…how are you going to solve this problem?

Option 1 ~ Life is happening To you and you fall victim. You get stressed, freak out, start blaming anyone who was involved, curse your Uber driver for not running the red light etc...Alright, you have officially failed this level.

What happens when we fail a level? Generally, we suffer through the current experience…and then soon we will be given around chance at the boss (in the game of life it might look different than the exact same situation).

Option 2 ~ Life is happening FOR you. You take a moment to pause, breathe, laugh, and take radical responsibility for missing your flight. Then you become aware that it’s happening for you..Maybe the fight was going to have issues…maybe you were going to sit next to someone sick…the point is, you weren’t supposed to be on that flight or else you would have been, it’s that simple, no excuse or justification. You stay calm and work towards the best possible outcome…Congrats, you have passed this level.

What happens when you pass a level? Generally, things work out in ways beyond our logical imagination. We gain the confidence and experience to handle challenging situations. We signal to the universe that we are capable of learning from life. That we are the victor, and an inconvenience can’t fuck with our flow.

Guess what happens next?

We are given more opportunities because we have proven we can handle more.

We are not in control of the world or what happens in the world (even though we can influence it in many ways).

But we are in control of how we respond to the world.

When we stay in Victor when we know life is happening for us to overcome the challenges and adversities, we thrive and are given more opportunities.

When we fall victim, when life is happening to us…poor meee, whoa is mee, we suffer, we get stuck into patterns and will replay them in different ways until we pass them or die.

Remember pain is inevitable, suffering is a choice.

Actualizing your ideas into reality is an honorable and deeply spiritual journey.

Trust me, you will be challenged, and those challenges will not stop.

But soon, by following this mindset you will begin to enjoy the process.

Dancing and laughing at how life works.

Find peace and strength in the chaos.

If there is one thing I could inspire you to remember it was this newsletter.

Be well fellow human, and for your sake remember this program & perspective now and forever.